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So I dumped him.] In a recent online survey of 900 Asian American men, Liu found that Asian men frequently feel stereotyped as lacking masculinity; they also said they’re perceived as undesirable and as too passive.

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Compared with other men she met on Match.com, Maltempo was far less flirtatious and more direct.

But after a friend urged Jiang, a 27-year-old native of China, to give Maltempo a chance, she realized that unlike some other people she was talking to, there was substance behind Maltempo’s messages.

“Even if you give them a little bit of room in terms of looks, that still leaves a really high bar for Asian men to be considered attractive at all.” To improve his success rate on Match.com, Maltempo created a rule for himself.

Rather than cast a wide net, he would message just one woman per week.

Maltempo says women occasionally made assumptions about him based on his race.

“When [I was] dating non-Asians, sometimes they were interested in exotic factors that I’m not a white guy,” he said.Compared with black, white and Latino men, Asian men receive fewer matches and messages from women on the dating site.That’s not to say online dating can’t work for Asian men.He asked himself: “Would people notice [me] if I was a large bearded white guy who likes hiking? I don’t need it in online dating, too.] After nearly three years on Ok Cupid, Montecillo met his current girlfriend, who is Caucasian.His approach was to emphasize his interests (he and his girlfriend are both big fans of Radiotopia podcasts); and keep his profile short but interesting.Alan Montecillo logged on to Ok Cupid and started filling out his profile.

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